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Bar/Bat Mitzvah Accessories

Personalize your Sterling Exclusive or Premier mitzvah package with some Accessories

Bar/Bat Mitzvah Accessories

Personalize your Sterling Exclusive or Premier mitzvah package with some Accessories

Bar/Bat Mitzvah Accessories

Personalize your Sterling Exclusive or Premier mitzvah package with some Accessories

Accessories for Exclusive + Premier Mitzvah Packages at the Sterling Ballroom

Go ahead… dream big. This is your chance to add the special touches that will take your DoubleTree Tinton Falls Bar or Bat Mitzvah to the next level. For your convenience, browse Accessory upgrades that are perfect for any package, or Accessory upgrades that are perfect for the Premier Package (already included in Exclusive). Whether you’re dreaming of dramatic multi-hued LED lighting, a cotton candy or popcorn machine, an over-the-top cocktail hour, or a Chocolate Lover’s Paradise, we’ll help you hand pick the right Accessories to make it happen. It’s all about the details!

Perfect For All Packages

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Ambiance

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Ambiance Bundle
Includes fitted modern chair covers in a choice of ivory or black; choice of modern chair wraps in ivory or black, including silver or gold jewel clasps; dynamic multi-hued LED lighting; and Classic menu cards (additional upgrades available)

**Special color options for chair wraps and jewels are available at an additional cost, and must be ordered at least one month in advance.

Fitted Modern Chair Covers
Coordinating fitted modern table dressing included (ivory, black)

  • Add modern chair wraps (ivory, black)
  • Add modern chair wraps (colors) (must be ordered at least one month in advance, subject to availability)
  • Add sequin chair wraps (must be ordered at least one month in advance, subject to availability)
  • Add silver or gold jewels on chair wraps (Satin or organza chair bows of equal value may be substituted)

Sequin Table Cloth on Head Table
(Must be ordered at least one month in advance, subject to availability)

Jewel Napkin Rings

Silver Chiavari Chairs

Dynamic Multi-Hued LED Lighting

Personalized Printed Menu Cards
Now in 4 designs with a spectrum of paper options plus the option to print your logo on the cards. Min order of 50 cards.

  • Classic paper selections
  • Color paper selections
  • Metallic paper selections
  • Add your custom logo to the top (color printing only available on light colored papers)

Customized Ice Sculpture
Displayed during cocktail hour

Selfie Station
lots of fun props and hats, a selfie stick, glam lighting, and 10ft backdrop

Custom Snapchat Filter

Customized Seating Chart 
Beautifully printed seating chart personalized with your names and wedding date

Services

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Onsite Bar/Bat Mitzvah Service
Room rental for on-site services is subject to availability

Libations

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Signature Mocktail Served During Reception
Make your Signature Mocktail available at the bar during your reception after your guests have enjoyed their Signature Mocktail Greeting during cocktail hour.

Mocktail Bar
Made-to-order virgin piña coladas and strawberry daiquiris served the entire event.

Vodka Ice Luge
Minimum of 100 adults required. Served during cocktail hour.
Stoli Vodka, Stoli Razberi, Stoli Ohranj, and Stoli Vanil chilled and served in a dramatic carved ice luge display

Signature Liquor Upgrade
Select four brands (each additional brand is an additional charge per person). Minimum of 100 guests required.

  • Grey Goose Vodka
  • Ciroc Vodka
  • Belvedere Vodka
  • Patrón Silver Tequila
  • Johnnie Walker Black Label Scotch
  • Bombay Sapphire Gin
  • Bushmills Irish Whiskey
  • Moët & Chandon Impérial Champagne
  • Limoncello
  • Romana Black Sambuca
  • Sandeman Porto Tawny
  • **Remy Martin VSOP Cognac – additional charge per person

Signature Wine Upgrade
Select three varietals of J. Lohr wine: Cabernet Sauvignon, Merlot, Pinot Noir, Chardonnay, or Riesling. Minimum of 100 adults required

J. Lohr 3 Litre Bottle
Select either Cabernet Sauvignon or Chardonnay. Jumbo bottle comes displayed in a crate

Bottled Beer Upgrade
Minimum of 100 guests required. Available for an additional charge per person, per label.

  • Imported: Amstel Light, Beck’s, Stella Artois, Harp Lager
  • Domestic: Samuel Adams, Michelob Ultra, Blue Moon, Yuengling

Wine Service with Dinner

Craft Beer Flight Tasting + Gourmet Popcorn
Minimum of 100 adults required. Served during cocktail hour.
Craft beer from local Icarus Brewing company. Includes 4 artisan beers to be served in 4-glass tasting flights during cocktail hour. Served with gourmet popcorn in ten savory flavors: nacho cheddar, cheesy jalapeno, white cheddar, kettle corn, garlic Parmesan, Buffalo wing, bacon cheddar, ranch, caramel, and butter.

Sangria Bar
Minimum of 100 adults required. Served during cocktail  hour.
Your choice of two sangria creations. Personalize your libation with a cornucopia of fresh fruits available for garnish.

  • Pineapple Mojito Sangria – pinot grigio, white rum, lemon-lime soda, and pineapple juice mixed with fresh pineapple, lime, and peppermint leaves
  • Strawberry Lemonade Sangria – moscato, orange liqueur, lemonade, lemon-lime soda, and lemon juice mixed with lemons, strawberries, and kiwi garnished with mint
  • Watermelon Sangria – rosé, white rum, seltzer, and lime juice, mixed with watermelon, strawberries, blueberries, and basil sprigs
  • Ginger Peach Sangria – chardonnay, apricot brandy, peach schnapps, seltzer, and apple juice mixed with peaches, apples, grated ginger, and cranberries
  • Apple Pie Sangria – merlot, amaretto, ginger ale, and apple juice mixed with apples, cinnamon sticks, and cranberries
  • Cherry Berry Sangria – cabernet sauvignon, blackberry brandy, raspberry liqueur, lemon-lime soda, cranberry juice, and pomegranate juice mixed with cherries, blackberries, raspberries, and blueberries
  • Red Velvet Sangria – cabernet sauvignon, chocolate liqueur, and pomegranate juice mixed with strawberries and raspberries
  • Classic Red Citrus Sangria – merlot, Southern Comfort, triple sec, and ginger ale mixed with blood orange, apple, and lemon

Bubble Bar
For an effervescent DIY twist on the classic cocktail, guests make their own blends of champagne, cotton candy clouds, juice, and garnish. Includes a dramatic carved ice sculpture display with bottle holders.
BUBBLY: Korbel Brut, Korbel Sweet Rosé, and San Pellegrino
JUICES/NECTARS: orange, pineapple, and cranberry
GARNISHES: sliced strawberries, orange slices, grapes, and blueberries

Tuscany Table

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Fresh Mozzarella Bar
Classic fresh mozzarella, smoked mozzarella, bocconcini mozzarella, and pinwheels of proscuitto, basil, and mozzarella
Served with roasted peppers, fresh basil, pesto, sundried tomato tapenade, olive oil, and a balsamic glaze

From The Sea

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Sushi + Sashimi Station
A colorful vignette of Japanese wooden boats filled with hand-rolled sushi and fresh sashimi, served with saké, pickled ginger,wasabi, soy sauce, spicy mayo, and chopsticks.

  • Select four hand rolls: spicy tuna, yellowtail, spicy salmon, vegetable, California roll, or Philadelphia roll
  • Select two types of sashimi: tuna, yellowtail, or salmon

Specialty Fare Stations

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Fiesta Station Upgrade
Add blackened shrimp to your Fiesta Station (requires Fiesta Station)

Fry Bar Upgrade
Replace one of the fry options with sweet potato fries (requires Fry Bar)

Gourmet Mac N’ Cheese Upgrade
Add lobster or crab meat as a topping selection for your Gourmet Mac N’ Cheese Station (requires Gourmet Mac N’ Cheese)

Carving Station Upgrade
Upgrade any of the meats on your Carving Station to the premium meats below. Maximum of two meats will be carved on the station.

  • Prime rib with creamy horseradish and au jus
  • Seared sesame crusted Ahi tuna
  • Rosemary crusted leg of lamb

Desserts

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Dessert Pedestal
(additional cost for Premier and Cocktail exclusive; included in Exclusive package)
Three sweet tiers of petit indulgences served at each table: strawberries dipped in dark chocolate, cream puffs, éclairs, Napoleons, and freshly filled cannolis

Mitzvah Dessert Pedestal
Three sweet tiers of specialty Jewish indulgences served at each table: mini baklava, bite-size squares of chocolate mascarpone babka, chocolate covered strawberries, raspberry and pistachio rugelach, mini apricot hamantaschen, and cranberry-pecan mandel bread

Dessert Hors D’oeuvres
(additonal cost for Premier and Exclusive; included in Cocktail Exclusive package)
Passed on silver trays by our uniformed servers:

  • Cheesecake stuffed strawberries
  • Milk shooters and mini donuts
  • Mini assorted cheesecakes
  • Mini churro bites
  • Mini fruit tarts
  • Mini parfait shooters
  • S’mores shooters
  • Strawberry shortcake shooters
  • Tiramisu shooters

Cotton Candy Machine

Popcorn Machine

Perk Up
Freshly brewed espresso, cappuccino, and aromatic coffee (regular and decaf) displayed with specialty liqueurs and sweet embellishments: Disaronno, Baileys Irish Cream, Frangelico, Kahlua, Sambuca (served with a lit flame), Tia Maria, Godiva Chocolate Liqueur, chocolate cordial cups, crystallized sugar swizzle sticks, cinnamon, chocolate curls, Pirouline cookies, fresh lemon and orange peels, and whipped cream

Chocolate Lover’s Paradise
An avalanche of chocolate indulgence: a decadent fountain of rich velvety chocolate with dip-worthy delights – graham crackers, moist shortbread squares, marshmallows, Oreos, chocolate and plain rice crispy treats, pretzel rods, strawberries, and bananas – plus chocolate layer cake, fudge brownies, and hand piped chocolate mousse
Select one chocolate fountain: milk chocolate, white chocolate, dark chocolate

Baker’s Delight
Tantalize your taste buds with confectionery favorites from the bakery: moist chocolate crumb cake, classic crumb cake, tiramisu parfaits, strawberry shortcake parfaits adorned with fresh berries, whipped topping, and pound cake, assorted cupcakes on illuminated displays (red velvet, mocha, Oreo, chocolate chipotle, chocolate peanut butter, double fudge, honey vanilla cream, and traditional vanilla butter cream), and cake pops on triple tiered displays

Night Owl Breakfast
Succumb to the temptation of craving-inspired breakfast bites:

  • Spiced turkey sausage, egg, and melted cheese sandwiched between toasty biscuits
  • Smoked turkey bacon, egg, and cheese melted into buttery croissants
  • Assorted mini bagels with plain, vegetable, and strawberry cream cheese, honey butter and whipped butter
  • Freshly brewed coffee

**Add hot cocoa for an additional cost per person

S’more Love Station
Your event will be the talk of the town with this toasty, gooey build-your-own s’mores station:
Classic graham crackers, milk chocolate, white chocolate, and dark chocolate squares, with gourmet flavored square marshmallows in cookies and cream, coconut, mocha, mint, chocolate chip, and strawberry

Donut Mind If I Do
For a sweet dessert alternative, opt for this delightful display of donuts: plain and chocolate donuts hand-dipped in vanilla icing, chocolate icing, or classic glaze, plus an array of toppings including sprinkles, mini marshmallows, toasted coconut shavings, crumbled Oreos, Fruity Pebbles, chocolate crunch, M&M’s, and cinnamon sugar

Milk + Cookies Station
Ice cold milk, chocolate milk, and strawberry milk served in vintage milk bottles with colorful striped straws with freshly baked cookies, including: chocolate chip, double chocolate chip, white chocolate macadamia nut, oatmeal raisin, and old fashioned sugar cookies

Italian Soda Bar
Unleash your inner kid with this fruity, bubbly, colorful beverage bar: guests can choose one or multiple Torani syrups, including strawberry, mango, green apple, blue raspberry, coconut, and root beer flavors, to be mixed with sparkling water, served with cherries and whipped cream
**Add Stoli Vanil, Razberi, and Ohranj for an additional cost per person

Carnival Confections
Nothing will leave a lasting impression with your guests quite like this carnival treat inspired station:

  • Fried churros, fried Twinkies, and hot zeppole with powdered sugar
  • Warm soft pretzels served with an assortment of mustards and melted cheese
  • SNOW CONE MACHINE with twelve different Torani syrups that guests can mix and match to create a whimsical treat: blue raspberry, coconut, cupcake, grape, green apple, lemon, mango, orange, lime, strawberry, root beer, & watermelon

**Add Stoli Vanil, Razberi, and Ohranj for an additional cost per person

Apple Dipping Station
Create your own sweet apple concoction with this seasonal favorite: mini red delicious apples on a stick, warm caramel and chocolate fudge for dipping, and festive toppings – chopped peanuts, mini chocolate chips, toasted coconut, rainbow sprinkles, and M&M’s

Gourmet Popcorn Bar
There is no such thing as plain old popcorn – create a sweet, salty, or seasoned popped treat with our ten savory flavors: nacho cheddar, cheesy jalapeno, white cheddar, kettle corn, garlic Parmesan, Buffalo wing, bacon cheddar, ranch, caramel, and butter

Perfect for Exclusive and Cocktail Exclusive

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Specialty Fare Stations

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Carving Station Upgrade
Upgrade any of the meats on your Carving Station to the premium meats below (requires Carving Station) (Maximum of two meats will be carved on the station)

  • Seared sesame crusted Ahi tuna
  • Rosemary crusted leg of lamb

Additional Station
Add an extra Specialty Fare Station from stations included in your Exclusive or Cocktail Exclusive package, in addition to the stations you chose.

  • Carving Station (premium meat upgrades are an additional cost per person)
  • Smashed Potato Bar
  • Fry Bar
  • Gourmet Mac N’ Cheese
  • Asian Fusion Station
  • The Wing-Man
  • The Stadium
  • Fiesta Station
  • Southern Comfort Station
  • Bagel + Bialy Bar
  • Deli Station

Entrées

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Sesame Crusted Tuna with a sweet chili sauce

Third Entrée Selection
Add an extra entrée selection from your Exclusive Package in addition to the two entrées you chose. Maximum three entrée selections can be served.

  • 8 oz. Center-Cut Filet Mignon
  • Filet of Mahi Mahi
  • Ginger-Infused Salmon
  • Pan Seared Cod
  • Sliced Breast of Boneless Duck
  • Chicken En Croute
  • Herb Roasted French Breast of Chicken
  • Grilled NY Strip Steak

Perfect For The Premier Package

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Services

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Valet Parking

Libations

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Signature Mocktail Greeting
Upon entering the cocktail hour, your guests will be greeted with your signature mocktail passed to them by our uniformed servers. Select one from the list below. (Add your Signature Mocktail to the reception bar for an additional charge per person)

  • Baby Bellini – peach nectar, sparkling cider
  • Shirley Temple –  ginger ale, lemon-lime soda, grenadine, garnished with a cherry
  • Seabreeze – cranberry juice, white grapefruit juice, grenadine, garnished with lime
  • Lil Appletini – apple juice, simple syrup, lemon juice, garnished with an apple slice
  • Chocolate Mocktini – chocolate milk, sprinkle of cinnamon, rimmed with cocoa powder and sugar

For The Teens

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Teen Station
Attended by our uniformed chef. A fun, unique presentation of teen favorites just for the young crowd (served to teens during cocktail hour).

  • Mini franks
  • Pizza bagels
  • Nachos grande
  • Mozzarella triangles
  • Soft pretzels
  • Soda bar

Tuscany Table

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Mediterranean Market
Salami, turkey, roast beef, and corned beef
Kalamata and green olives, stuffed cherry peppers, and pepperoncinis

Hors D'oeuvres

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Hors D’oeuvres Upgrade
Upgrade to the following passed Hors d’oeuvres (included in Exclusive and Cocktail Exclusive packages):

  • Arancini (Italian rice balls)
  • Cherry tomato and fresh mozzarella skewers*
  • Chicken quesadillas
  • Cocktail franks wrapped in a pretzel bun
  • Grilled miniature lamb chops with fresh mint jelly*
  • Matzoh ball soup shooters
  • Mini eggrolls with hot mustard and sweet and sour sauce
  • Mini Reubens
  • Potato latkes
  • Smoked whitefish canapés*
  • Spanakopita
  • Vegetable spring rolls

Items marked with an * are gluten free

Specialty Fare Stations

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The Wing-Man
A culinary sanctuary for all guests with man-sized appetites

  • Plain chicken wings tossed to order with a selection of BBQ, sesame Asian, and Buffalo sauce
    Roast beef sliders with au jus
  • Fried pickle tower
  • Served with carrots and celery, bleu cheese and ranch dressings, ketchup, sautéed mushrooms, jalapenos, and crispy onion confetti
  • Kegerator with your choice of Miller Lite or Yuengling

Southern Comfort Station
Satisfy your cravings for hearty food with these Southern staples
Beef brisket, fried chicken, mini corn on the cob, and freshly baked biscuits and corn bread served with gravy, BBQ sauce, and hot sauce

Bagel + Bialy Bar
Bagels and bialys to be served with flavored schmeers, sliced lox, capers, sliced tomatoes, sweet onions, and whitefish salad
BAGELS: plain, onion, sesame, everything, honey whole wheat, cinnamon raisin, blueberry
BIALY: seeded onion
SCHMEER (select three): regular cream cheese, cheddar, jalapeno, garlic herb, horseradish, vegetable, honey walnut

Deli Station
Mini corned beef sandwiches with pickled mustard on pumpernickel toast, mini pastrami sandwiches with caramelized onions and Dijon aioli on pretzel rolls, and grilled mini Reubens with sauerkraut and Russian dressing on rye, served with Brooklyn potato knishes, potato salad, coleslaw, sour tomatoes, and sweet and sour pickles

Additional Specialty Fare Station
Add an extra Specialty Fare Station from stations included in your Premier package, in addition to the stations you chose.

  • Buffet Station
  • Pasta Station
  • Carving Station (premium meat upgrades are an additional cost per person)
  • Smashed Potato Bar
  • Fry Bar
  • Gourmet Mac N’ Cheese
  • Asian Fusion Station
  • The Stadium
  • Fiesta Station

Appetizers

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Roasted Vegetables In Puff Pastry
over field greens with walnuts, cranberries, and a raspberry vinaigrette

Fields Of Spring Salad
spring greens and baby spinach topped with toasted pistachios, ripe strawberries, and Feta cheese, in a creamy champagne vinaigrette topped with a thin slice of cucumber

Fritter + Frisée
mixed greens and frisée tossed in a raspberry vinaigrette and topped with a goat cheese fritter, crisp apple slices, and fennel

Salmon Cakes
drizzled with sriracha aioli over a bed of field greens tossed with white balsamic vinaigrette

Amuse Bouche

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Limoncello Amuse Bouche
served in a frozen stemless martini glass with seasonal berries and mint garnish, to cleanse your palate between courses

Entrées

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Served tableside by our uniformed servers. Available as substitutions to the entrée selections included in your package.

8 oz. Center-Cut Filet Mignon
paired with a port wine demi glace

Filet of Mahi Mahi
with mango salsa fresca

Sliced Breast of Boneless Duck
with a sweet cherry and port wine reduction

Sesame Crusted Tuna
with a chili butter sauce

Third Entrée selection
Add an extra entrée selection from your Premier Package in addition to the two entrées you chose. Maximum three entrée selections can be served.

  • Ginger-Infused Salmon
  • Pan Seared Cod
  • Chicken En Croute
  • Herb Roasted French Breast of Chicken
  • Grilled NY Strip Steak

Desserts

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The Sundae Scoop
Ice cream, hot fudge, and sprinkles – oh my! Guests young and old will appreciate this create-your-own sundae bar featuring A&W Root Beer floats with vanilla and chocolate ice cream, warm Belgian waffles, and a collection of toppings – M&M’s, gummy bears, crumbled Oreos, crushed peanuts, crushed graham crackers, chocolate syrup, hot fudge, hot caramel, wet walnuts, rainbow and chocolate sprinkles, whipped cream, and maraschino cherries

Please Note

Menu details may be subject to change or vary slightly. It is our pleasure to cater to dietary restrictions and food allergies. For exclusively Kosher events, ask to see our list of recommended Kosher caterers.

Menu subject to change.

Reviews We Love

  • I cannot say enough good things about this venue. The food was amazing, and everyone was raving about it! Sterling Ballroom served as a one stop shop for us – the hotel, getting ready (bridal suite + presidential suite *which by the way is humongous and gorgeous and where we slept Friday and Friday night*), ceremony (both outdoor and indoor options, which btw our outdoor ceremony got rained out 30 min before ceremony and they made a game time decision to frantically set up the indoor ceremony space for us so beautifully and it was perfect!) cocktail hour, reception and after party in the lounge plus breakfast the next morning. All our guests loved the venue so much and found it to be super convenient that everyone was in one place. They recently renovated the hotel and it is gorgeous and whimsical. From the hotel to catering staff, everyone was so helpful and easy to work with start to finish. I highly, highly recommend Sterling Ballroom!!

    — Samantha, May 2024, Wedding
  • Our wedding at the Sterling Ballroom was nothing but amazing. From the moment I went in to book until the day after I was blow away by how smooth and easy everything was. Allison is beyond incredible. I wish I had to plan my wedding all over again, because it was such an awesome experience. I did not feel stressed at all. An extra perk was having the hotel attached to the venue where we were able to continue the party at the bar for a little then enjoy a nice breakfast in the morning! I could not have asked for a better experience and I cannot even stop thinking about our favorite day!

    — Carly + Bill, Middletown, NJ
  • The entire staff at the Sterling Ballroom and DoubleTree by Hilton could not have been more accommodating. They took away so much of our stress during the planning stages for our event and Nemo made it all come together for our special day. They did an amazing job, and I highly recommend them for any event.

    — Sheryl, Marlboro, NJ
  • Everything was flawless and perfectly executed. The staff here is SO beyond helpful and accommodating. They really went above and beyond to make our day as perfect as it was!

    — Tonian + Mark, Ocean, NJ
  • We could not have possibly asked for a better experience of a lifetime! Our guests have been raving nonstop about every little thing! Thank you for memories to last a lifetime!

    — Teresa, Mother of the Bride
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